Mitch Asks # 8 and # 9

Posted on August 30, 2008 by admin

AUGUST 23 > Has blogging become a part of your daily life that you can’t afford not to look at it even for a day?

My Answer:
I miss doing this meme last week-end due to the transfer so let me take this opportunity of answering it now.

My answer is YES. It’s always on my mind incase i can’t get to see it in a day.

AUGUST 30 > Was there a time in your life that you said “That’s it! I’ve had enough!”?

My Answer:
Yeah several times but the major one was when i decided it was all over for me and my husband. And that decision was made the moment i took the FX that will bring me to Manila and to the Pier. I waved goodbye and that goodbye means forever for both of us.

Actually it was all over before i left, but i still pressed on and tried to live with it. I have to bear it to the max, but when i had the chance to leave then that was it.

Mitch Asks # 7 – August 16

Posted on August 16, 2008 by admin

Imagine i missed 2 weeks. hehehe. But anyway here it is –

on August 16 – What is your biggest fear in life?

Well, there are many motherly or relationship fears that i imagined as i grow up like:

- am scared to die with dimple unsettled yet in life.

- am scared if one day dimple comes home crying coz she is bullied in school about “her father” thing.

- am scared my son will hate me thoughout his life if he is being brainwashed i abandoned him for selfish reasons.

- mom dies in off moments or after long illness in the hospital or when am not there

- if my mother and father fight again and will just kill mom instantly because of heart attack.

- am afraid i could curse my father til his death bed.

and the most —>

- am scared if Jesus comes now because am so sure am not yet ready. See my above fears? It means i haven’t forgiven my father yet or i dunno if i can ever still. And if I don’t forgive all the people i hurt and hate, i can’t see Jesus.

Mitch Asks # 6

Posted on August 9, 2008 by admin

Oh my gosh, i forgot about this too last week. Anyway, i will try to catch up. Hmm my side bar didn’t remind me huh or let’s say am just getting older each na talaga. OK for the question —

on August 9 – Do you consider your home a comforting zone?

Honestly, i don’t often call my home in general a comforting zone because am not the only one staying in it. It’s my bedroom that provides me the privacy i always wanna have especially when am tired, down the drain, happy, or even in any moods am in. MY bedroom is my own world and i feel bad when anybody uninvited just barged in.

Mitch Asks # 5

Posted on August 1, 2008 by admin

On August 2 > If you are given a chance to live again,
would you still choose to live the past life that you had?

Why not? The highschool life and even before that and also the college life. Life was fun and the responsibilities were still lighter as it is now. If i still have the freedom now to do what i wanna do, if i want to go back past, i’d love to experience that freedom again. Though money was scarce but carefree life was great. Now, though i am earning, yet the responsibilities are just too much that you can say – it’s not a carefree life anymore.

Happy August everyone!

Mitch Asks # 4

Posted on July 26, 2008 by admin

On July 26 “What would you do if you ever caught your partner flirting online?”

Honestly i can say “i dunno.” Since i started an online relationship (isa lang ha) that never cross my mind. Maybe it was because of my naivity or maybe i was just thinking that this guy is right true for me. I am feeling that I dunno how to flirt so am plainly thinking that my guy should not flirt. But thinking about it now, i can say that he flirted online (when we met) and happen to bump on me and then i jump up on me and never let him go anymore. LOL! I think i misread the flirt into caring and loving. (confession huh)

Now going back to the question and if i relate it to the present time, i can say am feeling bad as the question tug a hurt string in my heart because I didn’t catch him instead it was him who confessed it – now that he is hurt because he was cheated on. Aside from the hurt that i felt and i feel i wanna strangle the woman not him. LOL! For me, i get mad with the woman not with my guy. YOu know what am doing now? Am still giving him advices and like letting go and be forgiving. I think that’s the thing he came back and thought of really sticking with me forever because in me he found not just a friend, a lover and best friend kulang nalang kasal. Not being married to each other does not make him or me free from temptations or flirtings by the other parties. But if both of u just really love each other – all things can be talked about like saying goodbye and let that party go on flirting.

COMMENTS:

1. By Rachel – I’m sorry to know that you have personally experienced this. In life there are always mistakes but there is also the chance to make things right.
You may find mine here.

2. By Zriz – I’m really sorry that you had to go through this painful situation…however, I would not be mad at the other woman because she may not be the one that “seduced” your partner, it was your partner who decided to pursue a “relationship” with her online…but since he admitted it himself, I hope he has learned the error of his ways….
Check out my answer here

Mitch Asks # 2

Posted on July 12, 2008 by admin

On July 12 Mitch asks “When did you find out that your partner snores? Was it annoying or tolerable?”

My Answer: I don’t think he was a snorer and if he snores maybe it was tolerable because I can’t remember i complained that time or maybe i was deep in sleep that i don’t get to hear him snore. I also think that he is not the snoring type because he is so thin that time. I dunno now if he changed because it’s been almost 9 years since we’ve slept on the same bed.

Mitch Asks # 1

Posted on July 5, 2008 by admin

On july 5, Mitch asks: “right after your husband proposed, what was the first thing that came to your mind?” I don’t like to get married. Maybe not yet!

Thinking about it now, i never should have changed my mind or else my life wouldn’t be so messy as it is now but even then it has happened. di na pwede maibalik.

Thank you sis, for starting this new meme. Sana it will last. I like it. Sana i can relate to all questions. heheheehe

For more answers to this week’s question, check out here.

COMMENTS:

First, congrats on your domain. You finally have one!
Thanks for joining and for the suggestion of using Mr. Linky. I’ve just installed it there. You may now add your link.
I’ll try my best to ask questions na pang-general.
Again, thanks! — Mitch

note: this is jst a transferred post from my main domain because i want to continue doing the meme from this blog.

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