On July 26 “What would you do if you ever caught your partner flirting online?”

Honestly i can say “i dunno.” Since i started an online relationship (isa lang ha) that never cross my mind. Maybe it was because of my naivity or maybe i was just thinking that this guy is right true for me. I am feeling that I dunno how to flirt so am plainly thinking that my guy should not flirt. But thinking about it now, i can say that he flirted online (when we met) and happen to bump on me and then i jump up on me and never let him go anymore. LOL! I think i misread the flirt into caring and loving. (confession huh)

Now going back to the question and if i relate it to the present time, i can say am feeling bad as the question tug a hurt string in my heart because I didn’t catch him instead it was him who confessed it – now that he is hurt because he was cheated on. Aside from the hurt that i felt and i feel i wanna strangle the woman not him. LOL! For me, i get mad with the woman not with my guy. YOu know what am doing now? Am still giving him advices and like letting go and be forgiving. I think that’s the thing he came back and thought of really sticking with me forever because in me he found not just a friend, a lover and best friend kulang nalang kasal. Not being married to each other does not make him or me free from temptations or flirtings by the other parties. But if both of u just really love each other – all things can be talked about like saying goodbye and let that party go on flirting.

COMMENTS:

1. By Rachel – I’m sorry to know that you have personally experienced this. In life there are always mistakes but there is also the chance to make things right.
You may find mine here.

2. By Zriz – I’m really sorry that you had to go through this painful situation…however, I would not be mad at the other woman because she may not be the one that “seduced” your partner, it was your partner who decided to pursue a “relationship” with her online…but since he admitted it himself, I hope he has learned the error of his ways….
Check out my answer here