if you have asked me this question long time ago i mean fresh from college or before i got married, maybe my answer would be no. But after experiencing several failed relationships, and after reading some self-help books and relationship enhancement books, i can answer this with a big YES. In good faith, i will allow this kind of thing. He needs that as much as i need it also.

Giving each person a time to of his or her own out with his or her own friends is one of the ways you allow your partner to grow and i have proved that “need” when i got married. I thought restricting someone will jsut happen between a boy and girl friendship or relationship, so when i got married, and had the same treatment – i just got to let go. It was really suffocating. If your partner can allow you to go out sometimes yourself, i bet, the relationship will thrive long. But not the allowing and when he or she gets back, you interrogate him or her like a police. LOL! because i have experienced that too to the point that i don’t go out anymore coz we just end up fighting. hehehehe

COMMENTS:

1. BY MITCH – I remember my friend tuloy. Binansagan naming kagawad yung ex nya nun kasi super makabantay talaga, yun pala totoong kagawad sa kanila LOL!
I can’t stand din kung mala-police partner ko!

2. BY JO – We have never had that kind of a problem while we were dating or even up to now. We all needs our own special time to be alone, and going to the grocery by myself is a time alone.
Bottom line is if we trust each other, no issue will ever arise.