Dancing in Midlife Tune

One of the best investments to do while you are still alive and active working is to invest in properties. I really admire those young people at 35 who has already accumulated more than millions of properties. Real Estate just like Nicaragua real estate. I know not all of us are destined to be on luck right away, but with hard work and determination, one can realize his or her dream of having a comfortable twilight years when time comes.

Nicaragua is a coastal country so you can imagine that Nicaragua property deals with properties that makes you feel like you are in a paradise here on earth. Nicaragua real estate offers many beach front properties at very affordable prices.

Properties along the shorelines or the beachfront properties are best buys nowadays. And one of my friends is investing on it now. He likes the one that’s like Nicaragua beach property. There are similar properties here around, so maybe he will pick one like that as he said it’s not only for him but also for his future family’s family.

So thinking of grand investments? Check out Nicaragua Real Estate. YOu can either call the USA office or the one direct in Nicaragua.

If am not mistaken, people in Tacloban or Leyte, they call Cebuanos as “kana” for women and “kano” for men. I had the privileged of staying there for almost two months when i joined the first time student “canvassing” – canvassing of books or in simpler terms, selling books. We sold books printed by the Philippine Publishing House. Anyway, going back to the terms – they call us folks from Mindanao as kano or kana. We did not know that when they asked that they were referring to us. Because for us from Mindanao we refer to American woman for “kana” and American man for “kano”. Kana/kano from the word AMERICAN or AMERIKAN. So if we use that term here in our area, we are sure that you are referring to a person who is native AMERICAN.

Now we were wondering why us from Mindanao were called kano and kana. The first time we heard it we tried explaining that we are not “kano” or “kana” but we are Bisaya from Bukidnon. So there was sort of confusion later that they gave us the following explanation and it is somewhat funny.

KANA in cebuano is “that.” When we point at something or sharing the information of direction to someone, we use ther term “kana” in which am sure that term is not used by any waray.

KA/NO? or kano is an affirmative ending of a question like this — bisaya ka no? (are you bisaya?) which a bisaya will answer ” oo” or yes. Or like the following questions:
1. gigutom ka no? (are you hungry?)

2. katulugon ka no? (are you sleepy?)
3. Waray ka no? (are you waray?)

Well, i think i just heard someone outside askign someone a question with a NO at the end — so i thought about this.

Pleasant evening to all. Connection here is not that cooperative.

This is me with my boss, Penny (the one in curly hair & glasses) and Linda, one of the chinese english teachers. I think my eyes are not so obviously puffy. My last days there were spent packing, eating farewell treats from students & teachers & Admin (maka loka ang invitation here and there), and crying too. I can just imagine the stress am into the last days.

On July 26 “What would you do if you ever caught your partner flirting online?”

Honestly i can say “i dunno.” Since i started an online relationship (isa lang ha) that never cross my mind. Maybe it was because of my naivity or maybe i was just thinking that this guy is right true for me. I am feeling that I dunno how to flirt so am plainly thinking that my guy should not flirt. But thinking about it now, i can say that he flirted online (when we met) and happen to bump on me and then i jump up on me and never let him go anymore. LOL! I think i misread the flirt into caring and loving. (confession huh)

Now going back to the question and if i relate it to the present time, i can say am feeling bad as the question tug a hurt string in my heart because I didn’t catch him instead it was him who confessed it – now that he is hurt because he was cheated on. Aside from the hurt that i felt and i feel i wanna strangle the woman not him. LOL! For me, i get mad with the woman not with my guy. YOu know what am doing now? Am still giving him advices and like letting go and be forgiving. I think that’s the thing he came back and thought of really sticking with me forever because in me he found not just a friend, a lover and best friend kulang nalang kasal. Not being married to each other does not make him or me free from temptations or flirtings by the other parties. But if both of u just really love each other – all things can be talked about like saying goodbye and let that party go on flirting.

COMMENTS:

1. By Rachel – I’m sorry to know that you have personally experienced this. In life there are always mistakes but there is also the chance to make things right.
You may find mine here.

2. By Zriz – I’m really sorry that you had to go through this painful situation…however, I would not be mad at the other woman because she may not be the one that “seduced” your partner, it was your partner who decided to pursue a “relationship” with her online…but since he admitted it himself, I hope he has learned the error of his ways….
Check out my answer here

Summer is just here but have you thought about where would you like to be for the Christmas vacation? Maybe for some, they are off the the skiing slopes and those who does not have plans yet, maybe if they check out Whistler Accommodation, they would ops to go skiing too. Though it’s just summer, it’s now a high time to make your reservations as the places are starting to get packed for winter vacationers.

One of my friends can really recommend whistler to everyone as she has been there three times already and she said “still counting!” and so it means she’s off there again this coming December. You may wonder where do they stay or what type of accommodations they can give to their customers. Well, they have Whistler loding type and even the Whistler condo rental accommodation.

Here’s a sample type of townhome accommodation at Cedar Ridge 17 which many are after. Don’t you think it’s a very cozy place to stay with your loved one or even the whole family. Others said that Cedar Ridge 17 is an ideal place to stay because it’s jst few seconds walk to the slopes from your front door. It saves you from the long walks if you will be accommodated in other areas. This place has a total of 4 bedrooms and 2 bathrooms and can accommodate 10 people for a comfortable sleeping. They have a garage for your private vehicles but not much space for your visitor’s cars.

So check out their site and start calling them for your reservation. Don’t wait for the last minute or else you will never get a slot at this very nice town home. But anyways, Cedar Ridge is not the only accommodation out there – they have cozy log houses and apartments, too. So see ya at Whistler!

if you have asked me this question long time ago i mean fresh from college or before i got married, maybe my answer would be no. But after experiencing several failed relationships, and after reading some self-help books and relationship enhancement books, i can answer this with a big YES. In good faith, i will allow this kind of thing. He needs that as much as i need it also.

Giving each person a time to of his or her own out with his or her own friends is one of the ways you allow your partner to grow and i have proved that “need” when i got married. I thought restricting someone will jsut happen between a boy and girl friendship or relationship, so when i got married, and had the same treatment – i just got to let go. It was really suffocating. If your partner can allow you to go out sometimes yourself, i bet, the relationship will thrive long. But not the allowing and when he or she gets back, you interrogate him or her like a police. LOL! because i have experienced that too to the point that i don’t go out anymore coz we just end up fighting. hehehehe

COMMENTS:

1. BY MITCH – I remember my friend tuloy. Binansagan naming kagawad yung ex nya nun kasi super makabantay talaga, yun pala totoong kagawad sa kanila LOL!
I can’t stand din kung mala-police partner ko!

2. BY JO – We have never had that kind of a problem while we were dating or even up to now. We all needs our own special time to be alone, and going to the grocery by myself is a time alone.
Bottom line is if we trust each other, no issue will ever arise.

Here’s an additional “alarm clock!” My! He bleats so early. Actually before my alarm rang at around 6:15 or 6:30, our pets (the chickens and roosters) can already wake me up past 5 am and at times i have a hard time going back to sleep. This she goat just came to our home earlier. That’s mine actually and we have it taken cared of by a relative as they were raising their own goats too. Unfortunately, 2 weeks ago, their was a goat stealing operation in their place that most of their animals were stolen and luckily for my goat she was not taken away. So they adviced us to take home this goat here. This she goat of ours is pregnant. Dimple named her i just forgot what was the name. hehehe I really thought of selling her away as she is so noisy but maybe after she gives birth because our place is not a right place to raise domestic animals.

There really came a time when i was addicted to sports – Basketball. Not to play but to watch and cheer. It came to a point that i felt i was addicted because i find myself on the game every game time. Then came the time too for the World Cup in 2005, i was in china that time and since games are not played not in according to our time, we end up sleeping so late just to watch the game. Now if you think you will decide for football picks, check out this addicting site. This site will give you current updates on latest football games in the sportsworld! Maybe after checking their site, you will become a one avid sports supporter. hehehe and AddictSports.com is really set up for you and everyone of us who love sports especially free football picks.

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