Smilin’ and Talkin’i is Better than Screamin
Comments (0) Everytime I saw or heard couples fighting, I get a bit affected. Not in a way that I wanna come into their middle, but i tried to reason things out inside my brain and if both does not act like what i thought they should do, I end up upset. Crazy Me.
Earlier I was watching the movie Last Kiss and it shows several couples falling apart. It is not a bad movie after all as it depicts relationships at all levels. One is 30 years old, one is 3, and another one just weeks probably – well, it is their life! But I hate screaming and nagging and hitting. How I wish couples could talk out with clear heads — no matter how painful the topic may be, it has to be talked out. In most cases, women wanted the truth, the whole truth but when the guy tells the truth, she freaks out and starts to hit him. There is the throwing of things, the barrage of bad words and name. (Sad picture)
Maybe i feel this way because I have grown up in an environment like this. My mother and father always fought when I was still a kid and i don’t know if they thought it could affect me or my other siblings. Everytime they fight, I ran up to the room and hide inside the locker because their noise is just too much for me. One time, it was good my dad went inside the bathroom and did not come out or else, my mom could eat him alive. hahaha! But later, when i had time to forget i was scared, I tried to listen to my mom what she was upset about and i feel it was nagging. It was a horrible way of nagging that I feel if a man gets fed-up the man could give her one hit on the face and she will quiet down. But my father didn’t hit her ever that way. Maybe it was because of my mom’s nagging, that I feel I hate to hear someone nagging.
I had been in to many relationships. I don’t thing I nag so much – but the thing with me is i cry. Cry so hard that i can’t talk and makes a guy ran away scared.
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