My daughter is now a growing up lady. In few weeks, she will be starting her Junior year in high school. Looking back to the time I was her age, I already have a boyfriend. High school crushes. I know it was not allowed in the campus yet I cannot remember much anymore how a guy courts a lady. lol!
My girl is already into crushes (actors and celebrities) but nobody yet from school. It makes my heart smiles deep inside. Though I don’t want her to go into any relationship while still studying but I would also love the thought that someone likes her. lol! Bad bad me (they said). Anyway, if ever one day, in the next two or six years, someone will court her, then for sure I would like to know the guy better.
How to know the guy better? Aside from having a back ground check I would also make friends with him and invite him at home for meals or just to relax with their other friends. I will also him that our home is open for his visits on days when they don’t have class. I will also remind them that they should prioritize their studies first. Love and friendship is fun during high school days but when there are love quarrels, it affects the studies. So better not be so serious in love relationship while in school.
Honestly, I wish my little girl will always be a little girl so that she won’t discover the world of love and attraction of the opposite sex. But this is life! All of us pass that stage which is just normal. This will really be a challenge for because am a single parent. I hope she won’t give me a headache later in life. Hmm I really don’t think so. I am raising a good girl. =)